INSHALLAH.com Charter
This charter permits to ensure a quality of service and permits sisters and brothers to maximize their chance to find the soul mate. We count on our members to respect it in order to make the dialogue sane and pleasant.
Politeness is trhe rule.
Thus no form of insult or attack will be tolerated because they are contrary to the ethics and morals of the site: « I was not sent to insult or curse but to be a mercy for all mankind ». HadithRespect for the other.
InshAllah.com respects and guarantees the free expression of thoughts and opinions of everyone, provided it does not harm another and it does not disturb the established order. Thus it would not be acceptable to judge anyone : « Judgement belongs to Allah ». S.12 V.40Always modest.
he opportunity is given to members to make themselves known and post their profiles and pictures on them. Nevertheless modesty is still required and the site administration will strictly ensure it : « Modesty is a virtue, but when it comes to relationships between both sexes, it makes more sense ». Sayyidina Omar Ibn Al KhattabTotally honest.
Honesty and sincerity are the base of all relations. When joining this site, you make a commitment to show a true and honest image of your person, your intentions and your expectations. Do not base your relations on lies and falsehood : « Belongs to no religion, the one who does not keep his word and has no faith the one who is not trustworthy ». Hadith
The administration of inshallah.com site reserves the right to delete profiles of those who violate the charter established.
InshAllah.com ideology
InshAllah.com is a site of dating and exchange which tends to facilitate to Muslims the discovery of the soul mate wishing to see, if God will, marriage becoming a reality in the respect of human and moral values which are the ones of Islam.
Islam to which we subscribe and to which we refer in this site, is not the one which is instrumented on both sides, politicized or even marketed, but our Islam is the one which restored equality, justice and dignity to the whole humanity.
« We certainly sent our messengers, giving them clear proofs, we sent down with them the Book and the balance so that people can stick to equity ». S.57 V.25
In order to attend to this Islam which is the one of the happy medium, far from any fanaticism or extremism, and to close doors to any ill-intentioned who would speak in the name of this one without any skill (which is often the case on the web), your site inshAllah.com appealed to specialists on theology and on Muslim law who will guarantee the good spreading of knowledge .
« Thus ask the scholars of the Book if you do not know ». S.21 V.7
You should not see in this community aspect of the site some kind of multiculturalism because although we cling to our identity, we are all the more opened to the others and even invite them to come to meet and to exchange while remaining themselves.
« Allah forbids you by no means to be beneficial and fair to those of the non-Muslims who neither persecuted you in your faith nor drove you out of your homes, Allah certainly likes those who are fair. » S.60 V.8
Exchanges between different sexes, generations and races are reasons of the divine creation even if it does not automatically lead to marriage.It can be the fruits of a brotherly and cultural sharing.
« O mankind, We created you from a man and from a woman, made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another ». S.49 V.13
The administration of the site remains opened to any questions, suggestions or propositions to improve the site in terms of both content and form if they are well-intentioned.
Our commitments, Our responsibilities.
By implementing this project we have above all the wish that it can be pleased by our Lord, his noble messenger and be useful for our community : « Say: Work, and know that Allah will see your works as well as His Messenger and the believers. ». S.9 V.105
This project is all the more noble and delicate. Its nobility comes from the word of Allah : « O mankind, We created you from a man and from a woman, made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another ». S.49 V.13
But it is also delicate as far as, without an Islamic supervision, it eventually risks to go astray and to differ from the other dating sites only by the name. Therefore, it is imperative for this site to be as high as the name it wears, because Inshallah.com refers to the notion of absolute power, without which nothing can succeed. And besides this name is a strong symbol of Islam belonging.
That’s why we have to respect with the entire necessary rigor the requirements of Islam in the field of date between both sexes: we say yes to dates no to depravity, yes to exchanges and dialogue no to immorality under all its forms.
Besides, the strong and increasing attendance that the site knows in spite of its youth, places us undeniably in a responsible posture in front of the community, our faith and our Lord because as our master the beloved Prophet (B.P.U.H.) underlines it so well : « The one who has in his public about ten of people will be considered with Allah as a guide who will have to be accountable. » Hadith, and guides there are two kinds, one for what is good and one for the opposite.Of some people Lord said : « we appointed among them leaders who guide people by Our command as long as they endured » S.32 V.24 and for others, our Lord said : « And We made of them guides who call up to the furnace and on the last day they will not be helped ». S.28 V.41
As website administrator and responsible for this kind of site, we cannot simply content ourselves with facilitating meetings between sexes, which is imperative, we must underline it, but it is necessary to know how to supervise these meetings to avoid that they become corrupted. Our duty is to accompany the concerned persons so that inshallah they can know a successful realization but also be present for them when after the meeting they know confusion or when they need assistance or advice.
So here is the nobility of the task, it's a matter of Islamic morality and belonging beyond a search for funds or fame.
We hope that at the end of your reading you will grasp the professionalism and the morality this site fit in.
InshAllah.com, together for many good things, if God will.
